It's funny how something so natural and universal can lead to so much discussion and opinion: why we talk; What to do with it; why we care equally--seem all topics of discussion. The thing is, it's not exactly appropriate dinner conversation.

Over the years, her style has certainly changed--in the 1970s, it was cool for a woman to ' unkempt ' hair there; Today, she would never go on a date without waxing first (or at least shave). These days, are also men known for things trim in that area.

It can be difficult to discuss even with your partner, let alone friends or family. Still keep the questions. So, here's a little insight when it comes to five of the most frequently asked questions about pubic hair.

1. Why are we talking about?
Even the experts don't agree on this one. Heat? Perhaps. But then it would make sense for it on the shaft of the penis. Val pheromones? Perhaps. But even without it, the pheromones still manage to do their work. To keep out germs? Could be. But then should probably be present on the tip of the penis. Evolution is a funny thing. Maybe we should at the same time. But these days, nobody has proven that it as a necessity.

2. why some choose to let it be?
Some people prefer the natural look and feel, and there is not a thing wrong with that. It is certainly easier, of course, if it is not necessary the maintenance and care that trimming, shaving and waxing. People who prefer this look and feel often say that something else is fake--or even seems bizarre. Some people take particular issue with the complete removal of hair, such as let the person looking, in their view, adolescent. Followers also say often that the natural look is added to a natural musk of species that develop can when the hair is there, something that people either love or hate. However, the truth of the matter, it's all about personal preference.

3. Why choose others to cut, shave or was it?
A reason to cut, shave or wax some or all of the hair is purely aesthetic reasons. There are both men and women who simply prefer a neat look. Some claim that this preference is based on pornography, often an image of this look. But that's really a question of whether life imitating art or art imitates life, you know? But, regardless of the impulse, tends the hedges just become part of our culture, just as it is not a part of other cultures around the world.

Of course, is not the only reason the bald or nearly bald look has garnered popularity. It's also because it allows direct access to the naughty bits both for solo and partner play. A tongue, a touch of a toy on the bare skin makes a much different--and many argue much better--than a sensation that results when the natural look is contributed. Some women say they really enjoy how it feels during the day as bald, say that it makes them feel sexier and more experienced a craving for sensation that still inspires more sensation when they get home. (If you get my drift).

Some also suggest that a man's "package" appears larger when it's free of hair ...

4. How do I tell my partner I would have him or her to try a new ' do ' or that I might want to try something new myself?
It can be tough talk to your partner about wanting to change the look of your personal ' do ' or they want to change them. The key is to come at it from a place of "I" and your partner to ensure that there is absolutely nothing to do with how much you love them and intimate with them. It is just something that you would want to explore.

Here are some suggestions:
• "Honey, I would like to get a Brazilian wax. I love sex with you and I'm curious how it would be if you could see and feel me without distraction.

• "Sweetie, I was wondering if you've ever considered cutting, shaving or waxing your nether regions. I think it would be really sexy. And even if one or both of us ultimately not prefer it, it would certainly be a nice experiment! "

The point is to the conversation light and ensure that it is really just about something so simple as her and not about control or other deeper issues.

5. so, what are the options?
The sky is the limit, my friends. Some people just cleaned up things. Others was the naked. Some people take care of business themselves. Others go to spas or salons for the dirty work. Women sometimes leave a small patch of hair in a shape as simple as a triangle or a thin line. (The latter is usually called a Brazilian). Others get different designs in their pubic hair shaved.

Believe it or not, there are even dyes made specially for pubic hair. However, do not use bleach or a product that is designed for the hairs on your head.

You can even decorate around the hair or where the hair once was performing an exercise called Vajazzling, where crystals in various designs are glued to the skin.

The bottom line is this--it is up to you, it grows back; and no one has to see it, but you and which you choose to show. So, there's no reason not to do what turns you on. Furthermore, what a fun and sexy little way to get yourself and a big secret to carry with you and keep you feeling in the vote!

Jenny block is a freelance writer based in Dallas. She is the author of "Open: love, sex, and life in an Open marriage." Her work appears in "one big happy family," edited by Rebecca Walker, and "it's a girl: women writers on Raising daughters," edited by Andrea Buchanan. Go to its Web site at www.jennyonthepage.com or check out her blog at wwww. jennyonthepage. blogspot.com.

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